The World is Still Rich with Opportunity

A few years ago, I came across the quote below made by a reviewer of Richard Carlson’s book, Don’t Worry Make Money, that came out in 1997.         I don’t know the reviewer’s name and never found the review referenced again. But, this was and is an inspiration to me and I have always referred back to it over the years. I have a copy of it on my cubicle at work and on my bathroom wall so I can read it when necessary.

“Do you think that opportunity only knocks once? If you do, Richard Carlson, author of Don’t Worry Make Money, says you’re buying into one of the most perpetuated ‘myths’ in our culture.

Carlson argues that this kind of thing inspires people to do things they really do not want to do. That it is based on a ‘never enough to go around’ mindset that just isn’t true. Thinking that it’s now or never, often encourages bad decision making, for instance, he says. You might take a job you do not want or move to an area that doesn’t really sit well with you.

The world we live in is rich with ever-increasing opportunity, he says. The world is in need of creative people and everyone has their own gifts and talents to offer. You just have to figure out how it’s going to work for you. There are thousands of jobs out there that you can do. There are thousands of business opportunities.

But, Carlson says, first you have to overcome your fear: The fear of not having enough. The fear that you only get one shot and then it’s over.

It’s a big lie. Your life will be filled with great opportunities over and over again.”

On the other hand, you may be a person who has been blessed by some wonderful opportunities. That doesn’t mean that there aren’t more coming your way!

Submitted by Rosa L. Griffin

Review of ReShonda Tate’s book The Queen of Sugar Hill

Before this book, I knew nothing of Hattie McDaniels except she played a maid in the movie Gone with the Wind and other movies and television.    I was thrilled to find out that she was the first black woman to win an Oscar/Academy Award for playing a maid in the Gone with the Wind movie based on Civil War America.

The author, Ms. ReShonda Tate, has done a wonderful job re-creating Ms. McDaniel’s life from her research as well as her own creative writing.  The sequence of her experiences was so well written.  Many times, I hollered at Hattie’s choice of men in the book as well as the amount of money she spent on parties to which White as well as Black attended. 

I also hollered at the movie producers and black newsmen who were not able to see Hattie as anything but a maid in all her movie roles, radio, as well as in television roles.  Ms. Hattie was dark like me, overweight like I was, and like me, she was an educated woman who could have played more diverse parts and was a sorority sister.  

I could identify even today with the prejudice from our own black people.  In the fifth grade, we had a brown skin teacher the color of cinnamon or a paper bag at that time, who didn’t like any children who were darker than her and treated us darker children badly.  Thank God our sixth-grade teacher, a very light black woman, treated all of us the same.

Unfortunately, I’ve never seen the whole Gone with the Wind movie at four hours long.   But, in the parts of the movie I did see, I had no problem with the way blacks spoke in the movie.  She represented well as Blacks were not allowed to be educated at that time in American history.   The woman “Mammy” she represented in the movie was realistic to me, educated in common sense and experience of life.

What upset me was the way Ms. Daniels was treated by the NAACP at that time who said she, an actress, did not represent black people. And shamed her for her dark skin as well.  This just pits dark women against light women, but all women are beautiful.  Reminds me of the Ray Burton and Helen Reddy song, “I Am Woman”.

Ms. Tate said her book was a historical novel and used as much historical fact as possible.   I am so sorry that after Ms. Daniel’s triumphs, she was not allowed to be buried in the Hollywood Cemetery because of her color.   I so appreciate the book, The Queen of Sugar Hill by ReShonda Tate.

Written by Rosa Griffin

4/12/25

Review of movie Madame Web, 2024

First thing I thought: Marvel and Columbia Pictures. I’m sold on both.

I also heard this movie was not good. You know I had to judge it for myself.

I saw the library copy.

Look, baby. This is Marvel. I’ve never seen a bad movie from them.

Dakota Johnson plays a Manhattan paramedic, Cassie Webb, who develops clairvoyant abilities and forms a relationship with and has to protect 3 powerful girls who need training in how to use their powers. Her mother years earlier tried to look for and harness the healing power of a rare spider in the Amazon. Ezekiel Sims, the man who killed her mother and became a billionaire because of the attibutes of the spider venom.

And, there is a spiritual aspect concerning the spider people who protect the secret which was revealed to Cassie Web, who becomes Madame Web when she re-visited her mother’s site after she grew up. So, the rest of the movie is the fight between Ezekiel and her and the three girls.

According to Wikipedia, “Cassandra Webb first appeared in Marvel’s American comic books, The Amazing Spider-man #210 (November 1980).

“Humor, comedy, explosions, connections in the future”. I don’t discourage easily. I expect the next installment to get better reviews. We each have a right to our opinion.

Director: S..J. Clarkson.

Rosa Griffin

10/15/24

Movie: The Angry Black Girl and Her Monster: Death Can Be Cured, 2023

92 minutes

“If death is a disease then, there’s a cure…and I’m going to find it.”

Story is one of a kind..a different take on Mary Shelly’s “Frankenstein” monster.

Fresh take that centers around a brilliant Black teen named Vicaria who tries to reanimate her brother who was killed in the drug trade. How she got that smart I will never know–supposedly, she is smart enough to do so. Her plan backfires because the reanimation experiment took so long that her brother revived as a terrorizing, murdering and noncommunicating monster instead. He can only communicate with her little niece. This experiment prepares her for the next one.

Wonderful imagination.

Written and directed by Bomani J. Story. Filmed in Charlotte, N.C. with mostly local actors.

Great actors in this film:

Laya De Leon Hayes as Vicaria.

Denzel Whitaker as head drug dealer, Kango.

Keith Holliday as Jamaal, opposing drug dealer.

Chad Coleman as their father, Donald.

Robin Michele Lee as mother Evy.

These are among the great actors in the movie. I forrowed the movie from the library.

Written by Rosa Griffin, 10/17/24.

M. Night Shymalan’s TRAP movie

Edge of seat thrills from beginning to end. Nearly peed on myself because I didn’t want to miss anything!

Josh Harnett was born to play this part as the Cooper family father. Last time I saw a movie with Josh was in a vampire movie, 30 Days of Night, that I also thought was great.

Hayley Mills I remember from her teen years. Loved her as the brains behind this pursuit.

Action from beginning to end. I picked out all the mistakes I thought police/FBI made, and thank God, so did they. Don’t miss the conversation at the end, but don’t cheat.

This movie will keep you glued to your seat from beginning to end.

My review didn’t show up twice so I decided to put it on my own blog.

Rosa L. Griffin

11/22/24

Review of movie Dracula on Holiday (2021)

Comedy/Romance


Dracula, his vampire girlfriend, and his servant, Renfield, travel from Transylvania to Scotland. The elderly Renfield, Dracula’s family servant, confidante, and friend was allowed to frolic, drink, cook, and party with his “employer”.

At first, the vampires walked around town using umbrellas until they got used to being exposed to the sun gradually.


Dracula and his girlfriend became accustomed to eating “regular” food in the form of blood sausage and gruel (some type of cooked cereal) which took some getting used to. Renfield is the one who found blood sausages to substitute for biting people during this Scottish vacation. [They would have to eat a ton of blood sausages to substitute for real blood.] I found out that you have to be licensed to sell blood sausages (see source below).


They also discovered a female vampire living next door who was married to an undertaker. Dracula’s biggest worry was whether his ex-wife would find himself and his new vampire girlfriend.


There was a song in the movie that they and their neighbors were dancing and singing to that I swear had the same tune as the song in the musical comedy The Rocky Horror Picture Show (1975) starring a young, sexy Tim Curry, Richard O’Brien, Susan Sarandon, Barry Bostwick, Charles Gray, Meatloaf, etc., in a Frankenstein musical comedy.


Spoiler alert— A clean vampire movie, confusing at first because, of course, I was expecting someone to be bitten. No one was bitten or even murdered.


Dracula–“We have to get over our fears of sunlight, crosses, Bibles, running water, garlic, food and drink.” Ed Ward played Dracula, a handsome, pale but otherwise healthy-looking guy. Suzanne Kendall played Dracula’s vampire girlfriend Lucy, also healthy looking. Chris Bearne played Renfield, Dracula’s elderly confidante, butler, and friend.


I knew from the beginning that it was going to be interesting. It was relaxing and peaceful and the beautiful Scottish countryside was a character in the movie. The Scottish fair was a lot of fun!


The movie was directed by Robbie Moffatt, Palm Tree Worldwide.


Source:
Erict.Culinarylore, November 21, 2014, Culinarylore.com, “Can I Buy Legal Blood Boudin (Red Boudin or Boudin Rouge)? Or is it Outlawed?”, well-loved in Louisiana, illegal to make and sell commercially by USDA that make using blood illegal. France and Louisiana were mentioned.


Written by Rosa Griffin

Self-Care:   Books

Self-care is something you do for yourself to get through a challenge.   The challenge could be taking care of a loved one.  Whether you are taking care of a loved one, which could be a child, a mother, a father, another relative, or a friend.

One way I self-care is to read books.   And, to add icing to that cake…discuss the books with a group afterward.   Some groups, like the one I’m in, have older and younger members.   We only meet once a month at the Baltimore County Woodlawn Library from 6-7:30 p.m. on Thursday nights.  We are called the Page Turners and I’ve been in the group for over 3 years.

It can be so exhilarating to share your opinion with others on a book you’ve read in addition to giving you time away from whatever challenge you may face.  Although Covid caused us to resort to Zoom for the monthly meetings, as of last year we are resuming meeting in-person again.  Also, the librarians on occasion introduce us to new books.

Caregivers, our book club just finished reading the book, Black Cake, by Charmaine Wilkerson.  It is a wonderful adventure as well as a murder mystery.   The main character, Covey, a black champion surfer, is nearly forced to marry an island gangster much older than her to pay off her father’s debt.  She escapes only to be accused of murdering her husband-to-be.  The author takes you from the Caribbean to England to Canada and back. The action and the surfing never stop.  “Black Cake” is a Caribbean delicacy which actually is black.  In the story, people actually freeze the cake for years and often break off a piece for special occasions.

Another book I started on my own was a gift from another caregiver.  Marita Golden’s novel, The Wide Circumference of Love, is wonderful.   I started reading it a week ago.   It has a theme of a wife who confronts her husband’s Alzheimer’s when it should be a time when they can both retire and be traveling.   I learned a lot from the book so far.  It is both a romance and a mystery of Alzheimer’s disease—the onset and how it progresses, but it is not depressing.  It is upbeat considering the subject.  If you are going through this or a similar situation, it might be helpful to read the book.

Written by Rosa Griffin  

How to Protect Yourself from Fraud and Scammers (excerpt from magazine article)

[You are never too young to learn about people trying to steal your money “by any means necessary”.]

They may start with:

“Oops, wrong number!”  Delete or block.  Don’t talk or text with.

“Fake barcodes on gift cards.”  Barcode shouldn’t be on an attached sticker, or package ripped, wrinkled, bent, or looks tampered with.  Once scanned at a cash register, the code sends your money into the scammer’s account.

“Crypto refund swindles.”  If you have lost money in a cryptocurrency scam (the investments are not insured anyway), you may receive contact from phony ‘refund and recovery’ companies by phone, email or social media asking for your personal ID information.  You get nothing, warns the Federal Trade Commission (FTC).

“Making testimonial videos in exchange for the money crooks on social media have taken from you.”  You are “hired” to make a video saying that you made money.  This is a ploy to trap others. You don’t even get paid for it and who knows how many other people will be duped by the video you participated in.

“Fake high school streaming sites are set up for you to send them money.”  Legit streaming from school games was popularized during the pandemic.  The fake scammers hit the Internet before the legit ones.  You re-send thinking they are legit.  They steal your money and info.

“Bank impersonator racket.”  Low-tech way around two-factor authentication.  In the process, you hand your bank passcode over to the scammers.  [ Just like Social Security, IRS, etc., banks don’t call you on the phone–rlg] Report the fraud to the bank’s fraud department.

“LinkedIn relationship fakes”.  You get a message on LinkedIn, the popular workplace social media site.  Eventually you are asked to move your chat to a personal device, luring you into a scam.

“I’ve got your package, where is your house? Hoax”.  Didn’t order anything?   They may try to trick you into thinking it’s a gift from someone.  Or you may receive an email about rescheduling a drop-off or a fake “package delivery attempt” sticker on your door to get you to provide personal information which will download malware to your computer or dial a number with high per-minute fees.  Contact the legitimate company directly.

“Out-of-Stock Item Scam” Research businesses online before you buy, and only shop on secure websites with a lock symbol in the browser bar and an internet address that begins with ‘https’.

[I’ve had many similar emails and texts either telling me I’ve won something or I owe a huge bill to an account I may already have or don’t have.  I delete, block, or report spam.  Someone texted me today that they haven’t talked to me in a long time but the message had no name.  I asked for a name and they gave me a name as well as the product they were selling.  I blocked that person.

On Facebook, while I was texting with legitimate relatives, at least 3 “men” have greeted me in the midst of texted conversation with my relatives.   I don’t think of Facebook when I think of online dating.  They texted me with “how are you doing?”, “hello there”,etc.   One person “a doctor”, sent family pictures and facts about “himself” to Messenger that were believable.  But I discontinued the message.  There was no way to prove these people were legitimate.

Even if you don’t have access to AARP Bulletin or Magazine, there are many magazines, newspapers and other online outlets that address fraud and scammers.]

Source:

Sari Harrar, “Your 2023 Fraud Survival Guide:  Protect Your Money from Scam Calls, Texts and Emails (And Learn How the Pros are Fighting)”, AARP Bulletin, April 2023, v.64, n.3, pp.7-10 (of whole article pp. 7-14 containing parts 2 & 3).  AARP (American Association of Retired Persons) The newspaper of 50 plus America.  Membership dues $16 annually (also includes AARP Magazine).  The magazine and bulletin are worth far more.

Excerpts written by Rosa L. Griffin

Review of Movie The Man with the Iron Fists (2012)

If you like Asian martial arts movies, you’ll like this American one—all the artistry and violence you can stand.

RZA plays an American slave who was given his freedom upon his master’s death.   The local white men took his freedom papers and intended to kill him but he escaped to China. There he became a blacksmith and also found that there were Chinese slaves there whom he tried to help.  

This was a different role for a heavy-set Russell Crowe who looked handsome playing a gunslinger while mostly relying on a combination gun/knife to win fights.  He also came to the rescue of the people.   It is said that Crowe joined the cast because of his previous working relationship with RZA.  (Wikipedia)

This was a different role also for Lucy Liu as a brothel keeper of the best girls in the region.  Her character made a deal to basically sell the services of her girls to Ho’s boss, Silver Lion (Byron Mann), for a small percentage.   Turns out she hated Ho the Rodent Chief (Darren E. Scott) and his comrades.   In a twist, she and her girls tried and were successful in killing many of the Silver Lion’s men.

Eli Roth was a character in Wolf Clan #2.

A warrior Zen Yi (Rick Yune) also tried to help but was wounded.

Dave Bautista played a contract killer, Brass Body, who could change any part of his body into metal to avoid wounds which wasn’t fair at all to anyone he fought.   He could not be hurt.  I love Dave in the “Guardians of the Galaxy” movie franchise.

So glad to see Dustin Nguyen, Vietnamese, that I knew as a pretty boy in the 21 Jump Street tv series.  I did not recognize him at first.   In this movie, he wore heavy makeup which really gave him a rugged, handsome older man look.   His character was a leader of the enslaved Asian people but couldn’t make a move for fear of having more of his people killed.   The “figure head” Ho killed people for nothing and had them fight his best men for sport.    Eventually Nguyen’s character had no choice but to fight back.

Scintillating music and songs were so appropriately assigned to the scenes.

There’s an ironic twist at the end of the movie that I didn’t expect.

The Man with the Iron Fists was produced by Eli Roth, Marc Abraham, Eric Newman, and Thomas A. Bliss.

Distributed by Universal Pictures, rated R (more for violence/blood than nudity).

Directed by RZA, written by RZA and Eli Roth.    The music was co-scored by RZA and Howard Drossin.

I understand that RZA (Robert Fitzgerald Diggs) was the de facto leader of the hiphop  group Wu-Tang Clan of rappers and this was his directorial debut.   (Wikipedia)

RZA and Eli Roth wrote the screenplay.   RZA also directed the first episode of season one of Marvel’s Iron Fist TV show on Netflix (Screen Rant).

The onscreen title of the movie is Quentin Tarantino Presents The Man with the Iron Fists.  It was said that Quentin Tarantino mentored RZA in directing after RZA produced the soundtrack for Tarantino’s Kill Bill movie.  (Hollywood Reporter)

“One of the best bad movies ever…”  (LATimes)

I disagree.  It was like a very violent fairy tale or myth like the ones of old told to teach a moral lesson.  I loved the choreography and the CGI effects.

On YouTube there is a great preview of the movie done by LIGHTDARK FILMS, THE MAN WITH THE IRON FISTS MUSIC VIDEO.

Written by Rosa L. Griffin

Review of Book–The Violin Conspiracy, a novel by Brendan Slocumb (2022)

Anchor Books, Division of Penguin, Random House LLC

By the end of chapter one, this book had me by the throat because it turned into a mystery.  The young hero, Rayquan McMillian, is not complaining about his lot in life as a Black boy, but his love of playing the violin is all he can see in his future beyond high school.  However, everything and everyone seems to be against him.   When, as a boy, he asked his high school music teacher for lessons like the White kids got, his teacher, walking away replied “Why?”.

Here we have the emotional story of a man who has loved the violin since a boy but is not appreciated by his immediate family of Black people except for his grandmother, Nora, his aunt Rochelle, and one college female Black administrator who is professor of music at her university.   But the White world is not prepared to accept him because he’s Black.   “Look at his skin, hair, clothes.   He couldn’t possibly like or play classical music.”  His mother insists that he not waste time pursuing music, but work at Popeyes or the local grocery store. 

And, when his family, at the demand from his grandmother, finally listens to this high school young man play her violin (handed down through generations) from her great great grandfather for the first time on an instrument better than his rented one from school, even he had to admit that he had made the right choice as a Black man to pursue the violin as a career.   This chapter made me cry.   I think every one of us has had a situation when others don’t have faith in our abilities. 

His grandmother’s violin turned out to be a Stradivarius, worth millions.   More conflict developed from the Marks family, descendants of the original slave owners, once the real value of his grandmother’s relative’s violin came to public attention.  You can guess the trouble they caused.

Reading Slocumb’s book was like being there in every one of his character’s adventures—some great, some horrendous.   I enjoyed this book more than any monthly book our book club read in the 2 years I’ve been a member.   Never have I come across an author who can make you see and hear what Ray is playing on his violin, who so envelops you in the beauty of Ray’s playing.  I’ve always loved to hear a violin which is able to interpret any emotion. 

Although the book made me angry, too, I had a hard time putting it aside so much so that I finished the book in 3 days.  I learned a lot about what classical musicians had to go through—from local competitions to international ones.  It is an exciting book full of detailed characters.

 Quote from the book by Whoopee Goldberg:

“We’re here for a reason.  I believe a bit of the reason is to throw little torches out to lead people through the dark.”

Submitted by Rosa L. Griffin

Review of the movie My Salinger Year (2020)

A young woman, Joanna (Margaret Qualley) leaves her musician former boyfriend, Karl (Hamza Haq) and comes to the big city New York after graduating from college.  A poet herself, she is hoping to become a published writer of poetry. 

Joanna is hired by literary agent Margaret (Sigourney Weaver) to work at a publishing house, as a person to read/answer JD Salinger’s fan mail (which Salinger was not allowed to see) and to answer his calls when he phoned, thinking this would lead to a writing career for Joanna.  The only one nice to her at work was Daniel, a higher-up staffer member (Colm Feore).  In the movie, Judy Blume (played by Gillian Doria), who wrote more books than Salinger, wasn’t treated as well.

After moving in with a married couple of friends, Joanna meets a bookstore clerk Don (Douglas Booth) who writes an explicit manuscript about himself and wants Joanna to edit it for him.  They move in together with only her name on the rental contract (his idea).   

She never seems to have time to work on her own poetry because her job involved extracurricular activities like making sure things were delivered at odd hours in addition to editing her new boyfriend’s manuscript.

If Joanna stays with either boyfriend, she will always be second without shining at all—supporting one of them and not being supported herself.   The concert musician will want her full adoration of his skills while the bookstore clerk thinks all her time should be his.  There was even a very good dream dance number with the musician boyfriend which was the end to their relationship.

JD Salinger published his first novel Catcher in the Rye in 1951 at the same publisher and his last work in 1965.   Joanna answers his calls and he questions her and encourages her to continue to write her poetry every day.

I can relate to the relationship between author and first contact.   I once worked at a publisher where I loved talking to authors about their expected payments.   I also loved the small library of published works the publishing house had.   Although I tried to get them to do imprints of smaller works like a book of my short stories, they wouldn’t go for it, so I can relate to her situation.

Catcher in the Rye was the only novel written by Salinger.   I read it when I was a teenager and I don’t remember it at all.   I’ll have to read it again.   His novel has been banned many times over the years.   Maybe because the novel’s 16-year-old Holden Caulfield’s language and life situations were and are considered to be too mature.

Let’s not forget what our young people are watching today as animation:  The Simpsons where never-aging son Bart tells his father to “eat his shorts”; South Park where in one episode, grown men make their testicles grow so huge that the men can ride on them and collect disability; Family Guy where the baby Stewie is a literally super child who commits felonies, etc.  These are things I’ve seen flipping through channels.                       

Although this movie My Salinger Year portrays Salinger as a total recluse, Riley’s article says he went to church socials in New Hampshire.   “He was hanging out with people who think good fences make good neighbors and that people who come asking about folks that prefer their privacy don’t deserve much in the way of cooperation.”

Aldrich says that Catcher is an “incredibly educational novel which promotes moral lessons essential for high schoolers.”

Salinger’s worth at his death in 2010 was $20 million.   He made most of his money selling short stories to New Yorker and other magazines.

Screenplay written and directed by Philippe Falardeau.  Based on author Joanna Rakoff’s memoir.   The MPAA rating for My Salinger Year is R for language and some sexual references.   I must have missed those things or I am used to seeing just as much of that in PG-13 movies.

Sources:

Eleanor Ringel, “’My Salinger Year’—A Lightweight Movie Based on J.D. Salinger’s Literary Agency”, saportareport.com, March 22, 2021.

Peter J. Riley, “JD Salinger Really Was a Park Avenue Rich Kid”, Forbes, October 3, 2013.

Wikipedia

Elena Nicolaou, “11 Best Judy Blume Books That Will Take You Way Back to Your Tween Years”, https://www.oprahdaily.com, April 8, 2020.

Rae Alexandra, “JD Salinger’s Pursuit of Teen Girls Gets Renewed Attention After ‘Allen v. Farrow’”, Arts and Culture, KQED.org, April 2, 2021.

Haley Aldrich, “4 Reasons the Catcher in the Rye was Banned”, Bookstr.com, June 9, 2021.

Catcher in the Rye Should Not Be Banned”, 123helpme.com.

Written by Rosa L. Griffin